Am in jurul meu tot mai multi proaspeti parinti, iar subiectul "familie, copiii etc" devine si pentru noi tot mai captivant. Drept urmare antenele mele au inceput sa observe lucruri legate de societatea in care ma aflu acum si sa compar cu ce am vazut eu acasa, in familia noastra sau in Romania in general. Ei bine am fost profund surprinsa ca sa nu zic socata cand am auzit ca aici unele femei nu au lucrat niciodata!!!! 40 de ore pe sapt. Da! 10, 20 de ore max pe saptamana intrucat exista si alte treburi casnice de facut... Partea buna e ca te sustine si sistemul si poti sa dormi linistita cu ce primesti tu, ce primesti pt copil si ce castiga sotul/ daca exista unul :)
In Romania eu am vazut doar mame care muncesc mult. Adica care aveau un program normal, gateau, curatau iar copiii.... Unii cu cheia de gat, altii dati in ingrijirea bunicilor, unii dati la cresa, gradinita, scoala, altii dati direct la scoala, unii cu profesor privat, altii doar cu ce primesc la scoala, unii cu hobbyuri si pasiuni cultivate din copilarie, altii cu batut mingea in spatele blocului si iata ca am ajuns toti mari si frumosi, sanatosi si ne punem intrebari existentiale.
Am fost curioasa si am cautat un studiu, ca pe vremea cand lucram in presa :)) pesemne ca studiile sunt o sursa mai concreta de informatie, depinde de cine sunt realizate evident :)), si:
" Men spend about 10 hours a week more than women in paid work, and women spend about six hours more in household work and an additional three hours more in child care, says the analysis, by the Pew Research Center.
And for parents with kids under 18 living at home, the hours are also lopsided.
The average hours spent a week at a paying job declined from 42 hours in 1965 to 37 hours in 2011 for fathers, and increased from eight hours to 21 hours for mothers.
Fathers today spend more than twice as much time doing housework as they did in the 1960s (10 hours vs. four hours a week), and mothers — while they still do more — have cut their housework time almost in half during the same period (18 hours vs. 32 hours per week).
These analyses are based on historical time diary data as well as 2003-11 data from the federal government's American Time Use Survey; 2007 Pew survey data; and survey data completed in December. The nationally representative sample of 2,511 adults across the USA includes 643 parents of at least one child under age 18.
Among the parents, 33% say they don't have enough time with their children."
Merita studiate rezultatele ;) Chiar ieri vorbeam cu iubitul meu despre timpul alocat familiei, casei, muncii si cum putem sa ne impartim totusi timpul in asa masura incat sa nu ramanem doar cu munca si banii cheltuiti pe lucruri inutile cat cu amintiri si experiente traite efectiv cu copiii ... De fiecare data cand vad la ora pranzului parinti care isi plimba copiii in parc sau cainii ma gandesc "ei ce muncesc????" , "de ce au timp acum sa faca asta????"
Cred ca este posibil, ori au avut liber amandoi :)) ori chiar exista o cale de mijloc si ne putem permite luxul de a ne vedea copiii crescand. Lux... Mi se pare trist ca am ajuns sa consideram un lux timpul petrecut impreuna, gatitul acasa, mesele in familie, insa pentru foarte multi chiar asta e. Sau poate totusi nu facem destul si ne ascundem in spatele ratelor, facturilor, programului de lucru, lipseeeeeeeeei de timp?? :) O sa ma mai gandesc la asta :)
In Romania eu am vazut doar mame care muncesc mult. Adica care aveau un program normal, gateau, curatau iar copiii.... Unii cu cheia de gat, altii dati in ingrijirea bunicilor, unii dati la cresa, gradinita, scoala, altii dati direct la scoala, unii cu profesor privat, altii doar cu ce primesc la scoala, unii cu hobbyuri si pasiuni cultivate din copilarie, altii cu batut mingea in spatele blocului si iata ca am ajuns toti mari si frumosi, sanatosi si ne punem intrebari existentiale.
Am fost curioasa si am cautat un studiu, ca pe vremea cand lucram in presa :)) pesemne ca studiile sunt o sursa mai concreta de informatie, depinde de cine sunt realizate evident :)), si:
" Men spend about 10 hours a week more than women in paid work, and women spend about six hours more in household work and an additional three hours more in child care, says the analysis, by the Pew Research Center.
And for parents with kids under 18 living at home, the hours are also lopsided.
The average hours spent a week at a paying job declined from 42 hours in 1965 to 37 hours in 2011 for fathers, and increased from eight hours to 21 hours for mothers.
Fathers today spend more than twice as much time doing housework as they did in the 1960s (10 hours vs. four hours a week), and mothers — while they still do more — have cut their housework time almost in half during the same period (18 hours vs. 32 hours per week).
These analyses are based on historical time diary data as well as 2003-11 data from the federal government's American Time Use Survey; 2007 Pew survey data; and survey data completed in December. The nationally representative sample of 2,511 adults across the USA includes 643 parents of at least one child under age 18.
Among the parents, 33% say they don't have enough time with their children."
Merita studiate rezultatele ;) Chiar ieri vorbeam cu iubitul meu despre timpul alocat familiei, casei, muncii si cum putem sa ne impartim totusi timpul in asa masura incat sa nu ramanem doar cu munca si banii cheltuiti pe lucruri inutile cat cu amintiri si experiente traite efectiv cu copiii ... De fiecare data cand vad la ora pranzului parinti care isi plimba copiii in parc sau cainii ma gandesc "ei ce muncesc????" , "de ce au timp acum sa faca asta????"
Cred ca este posibil, ori au avut liber amandoi :)) ori chiar exista o cale de mijloc si ne putem permite luxul de a ne vedea copiii crescand. Lux... Mi se pare trist ca am ajuns sa consideram un lux timpul petrecut impreuna, gatitul acasa, mesele in familie, insa pentru foarte multi chiar asta e. Sau poate totusi nu facem destul si ne ascundem in spatele ratelor, facturilor, programului de lucru, lipseeeeeeeeei de timp?? :) O sa ma mai gandesc la asta :)
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